Salsa

One of the RA's in my dorm invited me to go to salsa night. So since dancing is a partner dance I brought another friend that I thought would be good. she ended up being a leader as a follower. In my opinion those are the worst kinds of follows. If you do not know what I am talking about just think of yourself as the lead or man in most cases. Now you have this woman, she can dance like nobodies business. Now as the guy you are attracted to this you think hey maybe her and i will look good together. because as a guy you are a good lead and she looks like a good follow. you ask her to dance. she says "yes". You get on the dance floor and you figure out that she is pulling you around and telling you where to go. So you get used to it for a minute and you go with it. Then you realize that she might has well have been dancing with her self. Now as a lead you need to assert yourself you need to lead. You then stop you tell her, "please, follow me".  She responds with a nod of the head. Then you begin the dance. She stumbles slightly and becomes vulnerable as a dancer. But she learned how to follow as a follower. She has now become a better dancer any way. So the moral of this is to play your part in dancing. The whole routine or free for all will work slightly less than perfect. And most guys if they are really into dancing will let you lead if you want.  So be the best that you can be at given moments in your life.   Well then again, have fun with it works too.